So, I know that it has been a few days, but I have been busy with my friend Mike who is here from Hawaii. It has been a fun and relaxing week.
Well, tonight we went to a bar called Good Company. There were a lot of people there and a lot of pretty women (I am married, not gay). Anyway, one particular young lady caught Mike's eye. He wanted to know what to do.
You see, Mike dated the same girl all through college. He was in a very stable and very comfortable relationship, and he was quite content. The sad thing is was his girlfriend was a little bit crazy. As expected by a lot of his friends, things went South with his g.f.. Mike never really had gotten over her, and up until tonight he was hanging on to the thought that there was still a chance.
I am so glad that we went out to that bar tonight. Mike and I talked about a lot of things. I did a comparison with him that I wish someone would have done with me... I compared him to the other guys in the bar including me. He is stable, caring, hardworking, has a job and would love someone beyond their wildest imaginations. In short, he has more to offer any girl in the bar than the next guy.
When I said that it was as if something changed in him. He had a bit of confidence. He actually went up and introduced himself, including handing out a business card with contact information on it. He then proceeded to go to the bathroom.
In the mean time I was sitting back in awe. This quiet shy guy was over his ex, in a very real way. He was able to do something I never was... introduce himself in person to someone he felt was attractive (my wife an I are an internet success story). I was floored.
I think that the best thing is that even Mike felt like he had turned a corner in his life. He was free from the curse of his ex, and was able to move on. I think we all know that not much could come out of meeting this girl, but at least he took that step...
He was all growed up!
I will be posting more refularly again, hopefully, soon.
Prayers,
Pisio
Well, tonight we went to a bar called Good Company. There were a lot of people there and a lot of pretty women (I am married, not gay). Anyway, one particular young lady caught Mike's eye. He wanted to know what to do.
You see, Mike dated the same girl all through college. He was in a very stable and very comfortable relationship, and he was quite content. The sad thing is was his girlfriend was a little bit crazy. As expected by a lot of his friends, things went South with his g.f.. Mike never really had gotten over her, and up until tonight he was hanging on to the thought that there was still a chance.
I am so glad that we went out to that bar tonight. Mike and I talked about a lot of things. I did a comparison with him that I wish someone would have done with me... I compared him to the other guys in the bar including me. He is stable, caring, hardworking, has a job and would love someone beyond their wildest imaginations. In short, he has more to offer any girl in the bar than the next guy.
When I said that it was as if something changed in him. He had a bit of confidence. He actually went up and introduced himself, including handing out a business card with contact information on it. He then proceeded to go to the bathroom.
In the mean time I was sitting back in awe. This quiet shy guy was over his ex, in a very real way. He was able to do something I never was... introduce himself in person to someone he felt was attractive (my wife an I are an internet success story). I was floored.
I think that the best thing is that even Mike felt like he had turned a corner in his life. He was free from the curse of his ex, and was able to move on. I think we all know that not much could come out of meeting this girl, but at least he took that step...
He was all growed up!
I will be posting more refularly again, hopefully, soon.
Prayers,
Pisio
